I few years ago I had the privilege of leading a women’s retreat for a church I used to attend. The title was “In Spite of Me.” (I cannot take the credit for the title because my friend Phoebe came up with it.) I loved it. I still do, because my salvation is totally in spite of me.
Actually so many good things happen in spite of me…probably some bad things too.
In spite of me…God loves me.
In spite of me…God is faithful to me.
In spite of me…God is kind to me.
In spite of me…God provides for me.
In spite of me…God blesses me.
I find myself thinking the wrong thing, doing the wrong thing, speaking the wrong thing, and feeling the wrong thing A LOT. It is so easy to be wrong.
I can’t seem to get myself to be the woman I want to be…
Thankfully, God can.
I’m in awe of grace…overwhelmed.
“The gospel of justifying faith means that while Christians are, in themselves still sinful and sinning, yet in Christ, in God’s sight, they are accepted and righteous. So we can say that we are more wicked than we ever dared believe, but more loved and accepted in Christ than we ever dared hope — at the very same time. This creates a radical new dynamic for personal growth. It means that the more you see your own flaws and sins, the more precious, electrifying, and amazing God’s grace appears to you. But on the other hand, the more aware you are of God’s grace and acceptance in Christ, the more able you are to drop your denials and self-defenses and admit the true dimensions and character of your sin.” Timothy Keller
Recently I heard someone tell my children if they weren’t good they weren’t going to go to heaven. In fact, this person told my children they need to be perfect.
I don’t believe I’ve ever had such an emotional reaction to something someone said. I was shaking and wanted to scream, “NOOOO!!! Please don’t put that burden on my children!”
It has taken me what feels like forever to get grace…and, even now, I know there are many things I can’t even begin to grasp about grace.
But please don’t take grace from my family!
We need it so desperately. In fact, so does the person that discounted the power of God’s grace and spoke such wrong words to my children.
For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast. Ephesians 2:8-9
Please don’t’ misunderstand…I want well-behaved children (desperately). I want my children to be obedient, respectful, and kind because that is what honors God and me. BUT, I also know that their behavior is not the determining factor in their salvation.
It certainly is easy to think that…if we are Christians shouldn’t we do the right thing, say the right thing, think the right thing, and feel the right thing?
I wish. I wish I didn’t struggle so much with being good.
I disappoint myself often. It is difficult to believe God doesn’t view me as a huge disappointment as well. But He doesn’t.
I don’t know how deeply I believe that even though I know it to be true. How could He not get tired of my failures? I don’t understand.
I love my children more than I could ever convey…in fact, I cannot think of an adequate adjective to describe my love for them. And boy do I get frustrated, annoyed, and angry with them…fairly regularly to be honest.
BUT God, is not at all like me (Alleluia!)
He is infinitely patient, unconditionally loving, relentlessly faithful, and forever forgiving.
He is my Advocate.
My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous. 1 John 2:1
He is the Author of my Faith
Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right had of the throne of God. Hebrews 12:1-2
He is my Mediator.
For there is one God and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all, which is the testimony given at the proper time. 1 Timothy 2:5-6
He is merciful.
The LORD is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love. He will not always chide, nor will he keep his anger forever. He does not deal with us according to our sins, nor repay us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his steadfast love toward those who fear him; as far as the east is from the west, so far does he remove our transgressions from us. As a father shows compassion to his children, so the LORD shows compassion to those who fear him. Psalm 103:8-13
He is the Shepherd and Overseer of my soul.
He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness. By his wounds you have been healed. For you were straying like sheep, but have now returned to the Shepherd and Overseer of your souls. 1 Peter 2:24-25
I could spend the rest of this snow day (yes, another snow day) looking up scripture about who God is and who He is to me…it is so encouraging.
What a blessed reminder of the God we serve and the grace He gives. I’m blessed beyond measure.
In spite of me…in spite of me and all my sinfulness and goofiness…God loves me! He forgive me again and again and again….
I just started to write “God is the BEST!” and I thought it sounded kinda silly, but you know what? It’s true. He absolutely is the Best.
And in spite of me, I’m forgiven and loved!